Just plain Arely

bursten:

pretty girls with a messy bun and baggy shirts look hot as fuck but when i do it it’s like i’ve been doing drugs for 5 days straight

"are you guys on drugs?"

"are you guys on drugs?"

The embarrassing thing about having a sister is your mom thinks she can get away with dressing you like twins.

The embarrassing thing about having a sister is your mom thinks she can get away with dressing you like twins.

Happy National Siblings Day

Anytime I post anything regarding “the sister” I’m referring to my sister Rebecca. See previous post, is who. She and I have the same parents. Though I have other half siblings from my dad’s first marriage, 3 half sisters and a half brother. We were all once pretty close but over the years that has gone to crap. My older siblings are in their forties now and reside in San Diego, CA. They all have children, some even around my age, I think it’s my nieces and nephews that keep us together, if not always including us in their activities or parties I might never see my other sisters.

Oh and another half sister from a result of an affair my dad had in his first marriage. She came around when I was younger but split after she found out my dad wasn’t as loaded as she assumed. I wonder about her some times. I’m tempted to look her up.

So total of 7 and I’m the baby! Dad says I might have other half siblings somewhere. Yeah he was kind of a whore in his younger days.

"The siblings bonds are life-long relationships usually lasting from cradle to grave. It is usually the longest relationship of a person’s life and typically much longer than a mother’s and father’s relationship." #tbt #sisters #nationalsiblingsday @becca_becks_ 



#icantstandyou #weresoover Rebecca’s voice

"The siblings bonds are life-long relationships usually lasting from cradle to grave. It is usually the longest relationship of a person’s life and typically much longer than a mother’s and father’s relationship." #tbt #sisters #nationalsiblingsday @becca_becks_

#icantstandyou #weresoover Rebecca’s voice

I heard on the news that today I’d the 50th anniversary of It’a A Small World

hiimles:

I’m telling you this because I should not be the only poor bastard with that mother fucking song stuck in their head.

You’re Welcome.

I’ve been singing that song all morning. Doesn’t take much to get it stuck in my head.

It’s kinda cheesy but it’s one of my favorite rides at Disneyland.

Back at again. Second infusion and won’t need another for about 6 months.

Back at again. Second infusion and won’t need another for about 6 months.

If I tell you I need you, do not take it lightly. I do everything I can to never have to depend on anyone, to never show weakness, and if I say that I need you, it means I am trusting you to catch me when I fall.
Brooke F   (via in-the-pain-is-healing)
Just got out of my follow up doctor appointment. It went well, even though I don’t have much control of my arm it’s healing incredibly well. In 3 months I have to get a ct scan of my chest and I’ll have to do that every 3 months for 2 years to monitor if the cancer hasn’t spread. I’m content with my doctor and treatment plans she has came up with. And it’s getting easier and easier to swallow any cancer news she has for me. Definitely close to being my old optimistic self!

Just got out of my follow up doctor appointment. It went well, even though I don’t have much control of my arm it’s healing incredibly well. In 3 months I have to get a ct scan of my chest and I’ll have to do that every 3 months for 2 years to monitor if the cancer hasn’t spread. I’m content with my doctor and treatment plans she has came up with. And it’s getting easier and easier to swallow any cancer news she has for me. Definitely close to being my old optimistic self!

futurelotterywinner:

TT
Someday you’ll find the right person, and you’ll learn to have a lot more confidence in yourself. That’s what I think. So don’t settle for anything less. In this world, there are things you can only do alone, and things you can only do with somebody else. It’s important to combine the two in just the right amount
Haruki Murakami  (via psych-facts)
•truths and recaps.
•this is my favorite hat ever! My friend’s fiancé has a clothing line and his snapbacks and strap backs are awesome!
•never do anything like this on instagram but what the he’ll came out cool.
•My cousin and aunt came over from San Diego to visit this weekend. It was a fun weekend. My cousin and I spent all Sunday together, we went out to eat at my fav seafood spot now her fav spot The Boiling Crab. We must’ve gained 20 pounds on shrimp alone. We pigged out incredibly hard. And then went out for some boba, oh and margaritas after. I got a slight buzz.
•little by little I feel I’m getting out of the depressing funk I was in. I’m no stranger to surgery and I consider myself a strong person but finding out I had cancer really took a toll on me, and then having surgery, starting new meds, physical therapy, oh and side effects didn’t make things easier.
•medical insurance is going through some changes and it really has me stressed out. I don’t wanna stop seeing my orthopedic oncologist but there is a risk since she might not be in the affiliate program the rest of my other physicians are in. It’s a headache of a situation. I don’t wanna see anyone new in the middle of my recovery.
•as for my recovery… I still can’t move my right arm. I can grip things with my hand but lifting is right near impossible. And my wrist is still fused stuck and so is my elbow. Pt gets so frustrating. I feel where I can turn on my nerves and muscles but I have no idea which ones I’m supposed to identify with in order to lift or move my arm. On the plus side I have better control as to it not flopping about when I walk without my sling.
•I post on instagram so my friends and family see that I’m fine. But it comes easier to share how I really feel here. Though I’ve distance myself from tumblr, your support speaks volumes to me. Thank you!

Hope everyone has a nice start to their week! I’m off to pt bright and early.

•truths and recaps.
•this is my favorite hat ever! My friend’s fiancé has a clothing line and his snapbacks and strap backs are awesome!
•never do anything like this on instagram but what the he’ll came out cool.
•My cousin and aunt came over from San Diego to visit this weekend. It was a fun weekend. My cousin and I spent all Sunday together, we went out to eat at my fav seafood spot now her fav spot The Boiling Crab. We must’ve gained 20 pounds on shrimp alone. We pigged out incredibly hard. And then went out for some boba, oh and margaritas after. I got a slight buzz.
•little by little I feel I’m getting out of the depressing funk I was in. I’m no stranger to surgery and I consider myself a strong person but finding out I had cancer really took a toll on me, and then having surgery, starting new meds, physical therapy, oh and side effects didn’t make things easier.
•medical insurance is going through some changes and it really has me stressed out. I don’t wanna stop seeing my orthopedic oncologist but there is a risk since she might not be in the affiliate program the rest of my other physicians are in. It’s a headache of a situation. I don’t wanna see anyone new in the middle of my recovery.
•as for my recovery… I still can’t move my right arm. I can grip things with my hand but lifting is right near impossible. And my wrist is still fused stuck and so is my elbow. Pt gets so frustrating. I feel where I can turn on my nerves and muscles but I have no idea which ones I’m supposed to identify with in order to lift or move my arm. On the plus side I have better control as to it not flopping about when I walk without my sling.
•I post on instagram so my friends and family see that I’m fine. But it comes easier to share how I really feel here. Though I’ve distance myself from tumblr, your support speaks volumes to me. Thank you!

Hope everyone has a nice start to their week! I’m off to pt bright and early.